My companion desires me to ejaculate – and I’m undecided it’s doable

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My companion desires me to ejaculate – and I’m undecided it’s doable

I’ve not too long ago been seeing somebody who could be very interested by making me ejaculate. I often solely have orgasms through clitoral stimulation and once I do nothing ever comes out of me. I’ve by no means skilled feminine ejaculation. Is that ordinary? Does the intercourse must be extra intense? I additionally use vibrators alone and have orgasms through clitoral stimulation, however nonetheless no ejaculation.

Please inform your not too long ago met companion to go away his feminine ejaculation fantasies within the realm of his late-night pornography viewing the place they belong. There’s nothing mistaken with you, and it’s completely unreasonable for him to place stress on you to realize one thing that – if it genuinely exists – is extraordinarily uncommon. As an alternative of permitting him to make you query your “normality”, change your expectations for him and be clear that you simply want him to understand you for who you’re. You should not have to attempt so exhausting to please him. As an alternative, take into consideration what you would love from him, how he may please you additional – and make these requests!

Pamela Stephenson Connolly is a US-based psychotherapist who specialises in treating sexual problems.

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