Mom of teenage bride in South Sudan comes out of hiding to be with pregnant daughter

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Mom of teenage bride in South Sudan comes out of hiding to be with pregnant daughter

The mom of an alleged baby bride has left a secure home in South Sudan to journey to be together with her daughter after discovering {the teenager} is pregnant.

Deborah Kuir Yach made headlines final yr when she opposed a contest for her daughter’s hand in marriage, insisting that her baby Athiak Dau Riak was solely 14. Worry of reprisals from her husband and household compelled her to depart her residence within the capital, Juba, and go into hiding.

Deborah Kuir Yach: ‘Now that Athiak is pregnant, I can’t do something concerning the marriage.’ {Photograph}: Florence Miettaux/The Guardian

After eight months residing in a shelter underneath the safety of an area NGO, the 41-year-old mom of seven has travelled to Nairobi the place Athiak is believed to be staying with family.

Regardless of the threats she confronted after her stance grew to become broadly recognized, Yach stated she is set to be together with her daughter – who is because of give beginning this month – in line with the cultural custom of the Dinka, one of many largest ethnic teams in South Sudan.

“Now that Athiak is pregnant, I can’t do something concerning the marriage. Let her be together with her husband. They may resolve collectively whether or not she will be able to return to highschool in a while,” stated Yach. “[But] in accordance with our Dinka custom, a daughter should give beginning to her first baby in her mom’s residence – that’s why I’m going to Kenya.”

Yach doesn’t know if Athiak might be allowed to stick with her however stated she would go to her to information her daughter into motherhood, and assist maintain the newborn.

Though she was perceived as a sufferer of kid marriage by those that condemned the marriage, Athiak sided with members of the family who orchestrated it.

Athiak Dau Riak and her husband, Chol Marol Deng. {Photograph}: Florence Miettaux/The Guardian

“Athiak disagrees with what I’ve finished. She says that I introduced disgrace to the household,” Yach instructed the Guardian earlier than she left South Sudan. “However I defined to her that I didn’t wish to keep the place I’m mistreated. Athiak desires to guard the picture of the household however I cannot return, I’m following my reality and my proper,” she stated, including that she desires a divorce. “I simply discovered that he introduced one other spouse residence.”

In June 2024 Athiak travelled to Nairobi shortly after her conventional marriage ceremony to Chol Marol Deng, a South Sudanese man in his 40s who lives in Canada. A courtroom case opened the identical month by South Sudanese lawyer Josephine Adhet Deng in opposition to Yach’s husband, Dau Riak Magany, accusing him of arranging the wedding of a minor – against the law underneath South Sudan’s legal guidelines – didn’t progress. Makes an attempt by Deng to have Athiak introduced again from Kenya have been rejected by South Sudan’s public prosecution workplace in October 2024.

Yach has travelled to Kenya together with her three youthful daughters within the hope that she will be able to shield them from the same destiny to Athiak. Her brother, Athiak’s uncle, who additionally publicly opposed the wedding, is supporting her.

Deborah Kuir Yach and her youthful daughters Akoi (left), 12, Anger (proper), 9, and Yar, 7. She hopes she will be able to forestall them being married at a younger age. {Photograph}: Florence Miettaux/The Guardian

“My niece is now pregnant and I’m not seeing this case going anyplace,” stated Daniel Chol Yach, who lives in Canada. “I’ve tried tirelessly to alert the Canadian authorities however nothing has occurred to date. Chol has been travelling freely and he impregnated Athiak, despite the fact that the wedding is just not full, and though he had stated he would let her return to highschool.” Whereas the customary a part of the marriage was celebrated in Juba, the wedding is just not legally finalised.

“Now I wish to guarantee that my sister, Deborah, and my nieces have a greater future. I’m renting a spot for them in Nairobi. The children will go to highschool there, and that can shield them from what occurred to Athiak. With good schooling, they’ll be capable to know what’s finest for his or her future.”

Yach hopes to place her daughters in class in Kenya and, finally, to affix her brother in Canada to construct a greater life for herself and her household. “The explanation I go away my nation is the way forward for my youngsters. If I stayed in South Sudan, possibly they are going to be married younger, too.”


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