Monetary analyst Yulia Gokcedag, 35, was recognized with breast most cancers shortly earlier than lockdown, Poplar Coroner’s Courtroom was advised immediately.
She hanged herself after drowning her son Timur of their flat close to Canary Wharf on August 13, simply days after docs advised her she had responded nicely to chemotherapy and was booked in for a ultimate surgical procedure.
Police pressured their approach into one of many household’s properties on the Isle of Canine after the pair have been reported lacking by Mrs Gokcedag’s monetary danger supervisor husband Mehmet.
Mrs Gokcedag, who labored for Moody’s Traders Service, had briefly talked about taking her personal life with household and docs in Might however satisfied them she was not severe concerning the plan.
She advised them needed a divorce from her troublesome marriage and to return to Russia with Timur.
There was “completely nothing” to counsel she would hurt her son, the court docket heard.
Mrs Gokcedag’s mom Elena Galivea moved to the UK in January to assist her daughter whereas she underwent chemotherapy.
Talking on the inquest by means of an interpreter she mentioned: “Yulia was the daughter you dream of getting. She was very form. She would take into consideration different individuals extra typically than herself … I believed Yulia would by no means do something to herself or Timur.”
Mrs Galivea mentioned that her daughter had advised her she needed to kill herself in Might however was additionally “extraordinarily scared” of dying of most cancers, regardless of being given a 97 p.c likelihood of survival.
“I used to be making an attempt to persuade her that she was going to be cured,” Mrs Galivea mentioned.
“However she thought she solely had a 3 p.c likelihood of survival.”
Mr Gokcedag mentioned he and his spouse had typically argued however they liked one another. She advised him about her suicidal ideas as soon as and he discovered a letter from the Swiss assisted dying clinic Dignitas of their residence. However she later assured him she has no intention of killing herself.
He mentioned: “My spouse was a really good particular person. She was an excellent mom…she liked our son and it’s unimaginable how she may do that.”
Mrs Gokcedag had been residing with despair and anxiousness for a few years and was referred to a psychiatrist earlier than beginning her most cancers therapy on the finish of January when docs turned fearful about her “extreme anxiousness”.
Within the months earlier than her loss of life she was seeing two physiatrists within the UK and attending a Russian help service for most cancers victims.
None of them believeved she posed a severe risk to herself or others .
Physician Amanda Ramirez mentioned: “Yulia was affected by acute and extreme anxiousness with insomnia.
“She had a powerful worry of dying from most cancers… She mentioned she had no ideas of ending her life. She reassured me saying she was dedicated to life.
Oncologist Paul Ellis noticed her on August 11 and mentioned there was there was no indiction she was suicidal.
He mentioned: “She had a most cancers that was curable and she or he had a implausible response to therapy. She most likely would have been cured. I nearly really feel like I failed her.”
Senior Coroner Mary Hassell decided that Timur was unlawfully killed by his mom on August 12 and she or he then died by suicide.
“The sequence of occasions appears clearly to me that Yulia drowned Timur after which hanged herself,” she mentioned.
“I believe that the chances are high that Yulia determined to kill herself and made a plan to hold out the act. Her anxiousness was so excessive and so misdirected and misjudged she seems to have thought it higher to take Timur along with her.”
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