Years earlier than I first met Lindsey Mendick, I knew extra intimate particulars of her life than I did these of my oldest associates. I knew about her previous relationships: open and clandestine; coercive and crushing. I knew about intercourse together with her exes, how she felt about her physique, and theirs. I knew about her accomplice, the artist Man Oliver, and her vampire fantasies (a card of Man-as-a-vampire making like to Mendick is caught to my fridge). I knew she suffered from polycystic ovary syndrome, and that it made her hirsute (which she hated) and presumably infertile (about which she was ambivalent).
I knew all this due to her artwork, which is ruthlessly, brutally trustworthy about matters different folks swerve even on a cabernet-lubricated ladies’ night time in. Individuals react strongly to her work. Since shifting to Margate through the pandemic, Mendick has grow to be near Tracey Emin, which figures. There’s a shared sensibility: in case you’re going to mine private expertise, why maintain again? (Besides, Mendick will attempt to persuade me later, she does maintain again.)
Off With Her Head, her newest present, explores the vilification of highly effective girls, from Medusa to Meghan Markle. It opens with Anne Boleyn, lifesize, kneeling in prayer forward of her execution, with video of Mendick’s face superimposed as she confesses her “sins”: a lipstick pattern stolen; chilly pasta eaten from the bin; baggage for all times unscanned on the checkout. There’s heavy stuff, too: binging and purging, and the obsessive thought dysfunction that periodically floods Mendick’s mind with horrific visions.
Navigating the exhibition at Carl Freedman’s gallery in Margate, I spot Mendick’s mermaid-blue bob as she searches for me between possessed vases, demon cats and grotesque pub fixtures. She greets me with a hug. We’re deposited in a cool workplace room by gallery director Robert Diament – a buddy of Mendick – who affords us choc-ices.
Did she consciously determine to open up her life to her artwork or is that simply how she is? “I really feel just like the honesty is sort of protecting,” Mendick says, as we settle into reverse corners of an enormous couch. “If everybody feels you’re being trustworthy about one factor then you may hold the actual darkness at bay.”
These dangerous ideas she shares as she recounts her sins? They’re a sanitised model. The fact, she tells me, is way worse.
Her confessional turning level was the 2019 present The Ex Recordsdata – a love letter to the company environments she labored in as a youthful lady. Mendick constructed an workplace with cottage-cheese-print wallpaper, adorned it with sculptures of glazed doughnuts and kinky leather-based furnishings, and shared the story of her previous relationships in ceramic sticky notes on the partitions (“You selecting me made me really feel like I existed”; “You have been surprisingly form and effortlessly merciless”; “I don’t must forgive you”). As she places it: “I burned all my relationships within the kiln.” She didn’t anticipate them to be learn, however they have been. It turned out that sharing intimate particulars of her life and receiving affirmation for it was “fairly addictive”.
Mendick’s company years began when she was struggling together with her psychological well being: her dad discovered a job for her at his workplace. Her household nonetheless looms giant: her mum was a kids’s garments designer for locations comparable to Woolworths, C&A and British Residence Shops. The artist designed customized material and wallpaper for Off With Her Head, a floral sample adorned with scolds’ bridles.
Mendick credit her mum with introducing her to sculpture, albeit by way of the bizarre medium of cake. Amongst her mom’s fondant-iced masterpieces, she remembers one made for a neighbour turning 18: “She made him within the bathtub, with a beer.” Her sister additionally began making desserts: the love they garnered didn’t escape Mendick’s discover. “So when my associates have been turning 18, I began making them,” she tells me. “I used to be the worst at it out of the three of us.” She has since realised fondant icing is far trickier than clay: “The stickiness, the sugar, the way in which that it begins melting, and one color bleeds into one other. Clay is a bit of piss in comparison with that.”
A few of Mendick’s sculpture performs with the conventions of conventional ceramics. There are ornate glazed vases ripped from inside by claws, skeleton fingers or octopus tentacles. Toby jugs formed like her severed head. Collectible figurines of smoking, red-eyed rodents. She additionally reimagines homely objects. In Bushy on the Inside, the present about polycystic ovary syndrome, she modelled traditional children’ toys (amongst them Mr Potato Head and Sylvanian Households) beset by bulging cysts and werewolf snouts. Ceramic sculpture is her main medium, however it’s introduced inside a totally realised world. For Bushy on the Inside, she constructed an ob/gyn ready room populated by anxious werewolves. For Off With Her Head, she has made a pub, with customized beer mats and a pole-dancing platform.
Drama is integral. Mendick needs you to gasp on the huge reveal, like a home-owner proven their main bedroom on an inside design present. She needs to overwhelm you with element, camp and popular culture references. Her “extra, extra, extra” sensibility is a product of the “bawdy tradition” she grew up in, she thinks. “As a baby of the 90s, there was a lot excessive response: Euro 96, Princess Diana dying, the Spice Ladies, fandom. All the pieces was big, everybody confirmed feelings. All the pieces was in regards to the occasion: from Reside & Kicking to TFI Friday.”
As we speak, I’m often conscious that she’s teetering between desirous to please and wanting to not care. Mendick has the braveness to be outspoken, outrageous, full-on, however she is tormented with self-doubt and nervousness. The overwhelming installations she constructs derive from this cycle: “I’m acutely aware of taking over folks’s time, and I really feel guilt about that,” she says. So in return, “I would like you to see how a lot time I’ve put in, that it means the world to me, that I’m not blasé: it’s a part of my soul and what I consider in.”
The connection with Oliver has been transformative, personally and artistically. They share a canine – Telly the pug – and a not-for-profit gallery referred to as Quench. Oliver’s film-making expertise have introduced video into Mendick’s work. For Bushy on the Inside, he filmed her mouth and chin in closeup as she drank a glass of purple wine. This was on the finish of lockdown: she’d been unable to entry hair-removal remedy. As she described bullying, insecurity and her combined emotions in regards to the strain to be physique optimistic, she drew viewers’ consideration to the purple wine catching within the hair on her high lip.
The checklist of confessions in Off With Her Head concludes with Mendick sharing petty annoyances with Oliver, earlier than explaining how awkward it felt to say that with him behind the digicam. At one level she says: “I hate him a lot, like when he walks actually slowly right into a restaurant, or corrects a phrase when he is aware of the phrase that I truly meant.” I’m astounded by the way in which they navigate this as a pair. The complexities of their relationship are explored in Mendick’s upcoming work Until Loss of life Do Us Half, made for the Hayward Gallery’s autumn present Unusual Clay. There, rodents combat battles throughout numerous home interiors: if our house is our fort, says Mendick “these castles are our area the place we create the legal guidelines”. They’re additionally the websites of hid battles and arguments.
The warped lens of social media locations Mendick within the inside circle of a decent Margate scene that centres on Tracey Emin, along with gallerist Carl Freedman (a curator vital to the rise of the YBAs), Robert Diament and Russell Tovey. Additionally within the orbit are Mendick’s shut buddy Rebecca Lucy Taylor (AKA singer-songwriter Self Esteem) and the youthful artists who go via Quench gallery. This pally cluster performs like an prolonged household, populating each other’s podcasts and Instagram feeds. Taylor and Mendick bubbled through the pandemic, sharing tracks and artworks as the previous labored in the direction of a brand new album and the latter an exhibition.
Emin has been an enormous affect, as an artist, and now as a buddy. “All the pieces modified when she got here into my life,” says Mendick, for whom the road between friendship and fandom is endearingly blurred. The periodic vilification Emin has endured makes the artist one thing of a patron saint for Off With Her Head. “Cancel tradition is simply the most recent incarnation of tabloids and the general public shaming of ladies: it’s at all times been there.” Emin options within the present in a ceramic diorama, bare amongst her work.
Much less instantly seen within the present, however evident all through our dialog, is how girls interiorise this risk of vilification, and the strain to be quiet, compliant and pleasing. That is the battle inside: the conditioning Mendick fights, whilst she seems to inform all.